you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a
new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn’t
really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold
on and when to let go!
You know you really love someone when
you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you’re not
part of it.
Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn’t
love you back, don’t be afraid to love someone else again, for you’ll never
know unless you give it a try. You’ll never love a person you love unless you
risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If
you don’t get hurt, you don’t learn how to love. Love doesn’t
hurt all the time. Though the hurting is still there to test you, it will help
“Don’t find love, let love find you”. That’s why it’s called falling
in love because you don’t force yourself
to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing
it’s chapters.If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn
the pages. Love is not destroyed by a
single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime
venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing. The greatest
irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you
need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find
someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.
On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse.
But don’t ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the
first time. To love is to risk
rejection, to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest
hazard in life is to risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement,
to expose your feelings is to expose
true self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return.
How to define love: “fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent,
share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never
keep the pain.” Love is like a
knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul
that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the
most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.
But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. Loving people means giving them the freedom who they
choose to be and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears,
for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that
there were the things that helped you grow.
Loving someone means giving him the
freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you.
Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary
or painful, for only then you’ll experience the fullness of humanity and that
is love. Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you
apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you’re not ready to cry, if you’re not ready to
take the risk, if you’re not ready to feel the pain, then you’re not ready to
fall in love.