ENTRY 115: R U READY 4 LUV?

SING WITH ME…LOL

Try Too Hard – by Teddy Geiger

Well love life one speaks for the other one here
And love life one speaks for the other one now
We’ll try to get by
Did anyone try to too hard
Well I guess I did
I guess I did alright
Well she’ll break my heart
Did anyone try too hard
Well I guess I did
I guess I did alright
She’ll break my heart
She’ll break my heart
Cause ever since the minute I saw your face
Well I knew I wanted to be in that place next to you, yeah
And now I’ll spend my whole life trying
To be the one that’s in your arms
And I’ll try to get by
Did anyone try too hard
Well I guess I did
I guess I did alright
She’ll break my heart
Did anyone try too hard
Well I guess I did
I guess I did alright
She’ll break my heart(3x)
Well isn’t it alright
Why can’t it be
Just this once alright
It will be you and me
Did anyone try too hard
Well I guess I did
I guess I did alright
She’ll break my heart
Did anyone try too hard
Well I guess I did
I guess I did alright
She’ll break my heart

She’ll break my heart

Just the thought of sharing…I got it somewhere (as is)..Enjoy reading!!!!

 

A good relationship isn’t a game you play or an ego trip you take.
It is about love and two people.
Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and it can hurt more than we can believe too.
When it does not really hurt when that person did something disappointing to you, but really hurts when you see that person in pain and sadness, then you know you truly love that person.

Loving someone means you should be ready to experience heartache and happiness at the same time.
That’s the reward and that’s the risk.
Unless we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it’s like to love and be loved.

Sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful experience a person can ever have.

And there’s a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone.

It’s the difference between a love that’s fickle, wild and short-lived and one that’s tender and passionate, nurturing and lasts a long time.

The first is easy.
The second, the one that really matters to all of us, takes work —
because it’s about keeping a relationship.

Loving someone takes efforts.
We have to be able to communicate with each other.
Nobody can read anyone else’s mind.
We always presume that our partner knows what we think and feel.
Maybe in time we might be able to predict or sense each other’s thoughts but it’s never perfect and takes time to develop.

Getting the chance to love and be loved by someone is blessed.

Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what you want him/her to be.

Everyone is pretty and special in his/her own special way. No one is
perfect.
It is true love which closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth
surface of acceptance for each other. True love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. It is also true love which makes a person change for the better.

The power of true love to a person is undeniable.

A relationship needs commitments too.
What is love without commitments from each other anyway?
It’s like principles and values.
Everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them.

The same goes for our commitments to relationships, and the person we love.
“Love is like an antique vase. It’s hard to find, hard to get, but easy to break.”

Every day everywhere, people fall in love …
but just how many of these relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love?
I know hundreds of friends who say the magical words “I love you”… but more often than not, the truth is just — “I am IN love with you”.

There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving
someone. If a person says he/she is in love with you, he/she means that he/she likes you for who you are now and he/she fell in love with you because of the present you.
This kind of love is temporary and lasts only as long as the fairytale
lasts. When fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us back to
reality, we see the heartache of such a relationship… where both were only IN love with each other.

But if a person says he/she loves you, he/she means that he/she loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were in the past and who you might be in the future. When he/she says he/she loves you and really means it, you have to ask yourself if you love him/her too or if you’re in love with the idea of bei ng in love. It is very hard to see the difference through logical thinking.

Let your heart guide you.

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